Creating and Living Within Relationships
“Relationship issues are the major reason people come to therapy.
Sometimes relationships become too emotionally merged or too lonely and isolating.
It is important for people to find a safe place
where they can learn to navigate closeness or intimacy with another.
In order to do this, individuals need to discover who they
become when they’re in a relationship…
only then can the relationship emotionally deepen.”
~ Florence Rosiello, PhD
THE NEW BOOK
Eight Fought to Live:
The Story of my AIDS Therapy Group, 1988 to 1990
1988: 82,362 gay and bisexual men had AIDS.
1989: 100,000 gay and bisexual men had AIDS.
1990: 307,000 gay and bisexual men had AIDS.
These are the two years Dr. Rosiello led an AIDS therapy group at Gay Men’s Health Crisis in New York City. Within two years each man in her group passed away from AIDS complications. One of these men was Vito Russo, an AIDS activist and historian.
This is the story of eight gay men living with advanced AIDS and one inexperienced fresh out of training psychoanalyst. Each man’s intimate story is peppered with Dr. Rosiello’s anxiety and her growing awareness regarding the importance of emotional authenticity in psychotherapy. The group members had no spare moments for Dr. Rosiello to use her newly learned psychoanalytic techniques. There was only time to be real.
Early on these group members pledged to not die. They pledged emotional support for the life of the group. This pledge held true for over a year. Blood brothers in their fight to live.